As I’ve mentioned before, one good thing that has come out of my exploration of the PUA community over the last few years is that it’s a good window into the minds of assholes and wannabe assholes. Some sites attract a better grade of guys than others. Good or bad, I’ve learned alot that has helped me to relate better to my male counseling clients.

At some point in a writer’s life though, one has to step back and consider what all this means to me personally…what it means for my real life, and what it means for the characters I write about. How has this new insight changed me? Has it really changed me? Should it?

Allball called a few days ago.  He’s having a hell of a time, working his ass off, and still waiting for his residency.  I’m afraid for him since I don’t have much trust in the good will of people who have a history of racism.  If the guy who’s doing selections will only take Arabs [...]