Kthulah’s Bjournal

As I’ve mentioned before, one good thing that has come out of my exploration of the PUA community over the last few years is that it’s a good window into the minds of assholes and wannabe assholes. Some sites attract a better grade of guys than others. Good or bad, I’ve learned alot that has helped me to relate better to my male counseling clients.

At some point in a writer’s life though, one has to step back and consider what all this means to me personally…what it means for my real life, and what it means for the characters I write about. How has this new insight changed me? Has it really changed me? Should it?

Well, after a bit of gentle prodding, I figured out which of Roissy’s holy cows I tipped. It has become apparent that there is no way to have an honest discussion on his site. I think I understand better now why Dave only censors spam. It’s to keep the discussion from degrading into “let’s all [...]

http://relationships.blog-city.com/someone_misusing_you_sexually_is_very_not_okay.htm  It’s about how sexual expoitation, one form of which is deceiving someone for the purpose of getting sex and/or associated benefits from them, is a violation that feels emotionally close to rape for both the exploiter and the exploited. Sexually exploitive people, like rapists, decide that for some irrational reason, their targets deserve to, [...]

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