For years I’ve been warning men to never allow a hoe type woman to get any control of them. It wasn’t until last night, that I saw two examples of coerced married men standing next to one another, that I realized the contrast, and how the universe arranges everything perfectly.
Last night, while hanging out with BK, I came across Slick.
I learned many things in a few short minutes. It was another one of those tao moments.
It turns out that Slick wasn’t actually a jerk after all. My instincts were spot on, but the timing was off. He’s a dad now, and a proud one. He and his wife have agreed to live together but stay out of each other’s way. I don’t yet know how out of each other’s way they are, but I suppose I’ll find out soon…or not. I don’t really care. Jerk or not, he really pissed me off when we split, to the point that I didn’t want to have anything to do with him anymore. He accused me of being obsessive for wanting to hear from him more than once every couple of weeks.
I’m so laid back guys usually accuse me of being inattentive, so that was obviously his way of saying, “Keep yo draws on, bitch!” We couldn’t be havin’ that.
So even though his smell, even after a night of sweaty dancing, still makes my headlights beam, and even though his sideways smile, awesome shoulders and deliciously pointy brows make me imagine that shagging him would be as natural as masturbating in front of a Romanian male funhouse mirror…and indeed it was, oh so long ago, I’m afraid that fantasy is as far as that can go. Once I learned how to say no to him, I perfected it.
I can’t tell a man how to be a man, but I can help to explain some of the traps of women, and how to avoid them. So here goes…
There may be two kinds of women, but we are both of the same hive. Hoes and wifeys work together, even when they are opponents.
…and a man who is under a hoe’s thumb is a punk. If she stopped having sex with him, it is because he is unworthy of sex. No other woman should give him free sex, knowing that he is married/cohabiting with a hoe who manipulates and deprives him. He is getting exactly what he deserves.
This doesn’t mean that what the hoe is doing is right. She’s got her man to pay her bills and whatnot, so she ought to throw him some every once in awhile. If nothing else, it will remind him who’s the boss, and might make him less likely to stray. If he’s got good noni at home, and he’s too low testosterone to still be pursuing variety, then he’ll stay in line. He’s got everything he needs or wants already.
…but if a guy is not a wuss, then he should not let a hoe get on top of him because then he’s marked. We wife types see a guy who got ensnared by a hoe who won’t shag him as a loser. A hoe will shag almost anybody if there’s some money in it for her, so the guy who’s paying her and not getting sex is a dummy of the lowest order. Some of us might be feeling benevolent from time to time, or be bored, but you can bet that for sure, it’ll be a hit it and forget it situation. Since a wife type doesn’t care much about your money, if you’ve got no balls, she might bless you once, but she doesn’t want you getting attached…and it’ll be very easy for her to avoid you since your hoe has you scared to put her real name with her number or something.
That’s where the advice from yesterday comes in. Do not promise monogamy to a hoe. She will not be monogamous to you, even though she will hide this fact very well. You’re lucky if she hasn’t shagged your dad on your wedding day.
The only people you should ever have to hide your extra partners from are your kids, unless you’ve already raised them to be open minded to alternative family styles. Kids raised with a monogamous example won’t usually understand something like polyamory until they are in their teens at least…and even then it shouldn’t be in their face. I’ve heard of people in their 20′s being traumatized from learning that their parents are kinky in some way.
If your wife doesn’t want you sexually, and you duck and dodge in secrecy, and sustain some illusion that you’re waiting for her, then you are whipped, and every woman you duck and dodge with knows it. It’s not just that your hoe wife/girlfriend sees you as a wuss. We all do.
So don’t be a wuss. Be the man in your house and in your relationship with the hoe. If she threatens you, then make sure you can threaten her with something even worse.
Examples:
Her: If you cheat on me, I’m taking the kids and leaving!
You 1: You ain’t goin’ no damn where with my kids! (Look really scary.)
You 2: (Show video of her shagging your friend.)
You 3: You’re starting to worry me. Are you okay? Maybe you need to talk to a professional…
Assholes have the answers that you seek. There are many ways to get rid of a good woman and keep your kids. A bad one who was screwed up enough to make a baby to trap you, wrecking not just your life, but that of an innocent child, is even easier to get rid of, because she is a nutbar.
If she’s only a mild nutbar, she’ll just learn to stay out of your way, and let you do your thing with other people in peace…but if she is a real serious coo-coo, then she will make all sorts of drama that will be grounds for having her committed or removed from the home.
If you’re not willing to get rough in the defense of yourself and your children, then just accept your fate…but accept that no woman is going to stick around long enough to let you fail her like you fail your kids when you teach them it’s okay to let a someone degrade you.
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