I just got a message from a friend asking how I can actually tell if a guy is into me from the first kiss and/or the first shag (if horniness caused one’s mind to lapse between the kiss and the shag).  Though alot of it I can’t actually put into words, here’s the bit that [...]

Related to some past advice that I’ve given, that if you want to know what someone’s really up to, give them a little of what you guess that they want, I have some not so surprising news. Papa wants to basically go down the same road that Allball did.  Though part of me is disappointed, [...]

For those ‘alternative’ ladies out there who still date men sometimes, here is one additional “commandment”. If a guy outside of a discussion about “nice guy syndrome” says that he’s a “nice guy”, then he is warning you that he is a conformist.  Unless you want to end up converted to something, or left behind [...]